10 Things I Wish I Knew Before Facing My Biggest Battle

Life has a way of throwing battles at you when you least expect them. When I faced my biggest battle—losing everything I had worked for and walking into a federal prison—I felt unprepared. Looking back, I realized there were lessons I wish I had known before the storm hit. If you’re in a battle right now, I hope these truths help you stand strong.

1. Your Title and Achievements Won’t Save You

When life crumbles, your job, status, or connections won’t be your anchor. Only God can hold you steady.

2. People Will Judge You—Ignore Them

Some will talk, assume, and walk away. Let them. The only opinion that matters is God’s.

3. Your Worst Season Won’t Last Forever

The pain feels permanent, but it’s not. God is always working, even in silence.

4. You Are Stronger Than You Think

When you have no choice but to keep going, you’ll discover a strength you never knew existed.

5. The Right People Will Show Up

True friends won’t leave you when the storm hits. Pay attention to who is staying.

6. Shame Is a Liar

Your mistakes do not define you. Grace does.

7. Rock Bottom Is the Start of Something New

Sometimes, losing everything is the beginning of becoming who you were meant to be.

8. Faith Will Carry You

Even when everything falls apart, God never will.

9. Your Story Has Purpose

One day, your battle will be someone else’s survival guide. Keep going.

10. You Will Rise Again

No matter how far you’ve fallen, God’s grace will lift you up. Your story isn’t over, it’s just the beginning.